I find that black men tend to be more courteous, less racist and moe open minded and gentle with women than whtie men, who tend to be more aggressive and hostile toward women. I think black men are better as friedns, boyfriends and even husbands than white men. White mend tend to be selfish & controlling, black men, not so much. They value women in high esteem. Not white men. Is this racist? Why? I say I'm not racist.