why is it ok for black guys and white girls to go out, but not the other way around?

Question

has anyone else noticed, that the whole black guy and white girl chick thing is becoming more out there nowadays?. or atleast thats how i see it in my high school and suburb.i have a friend she goes out with a white guy ( and hes HOT!) but like the other day when i went shopping with them, i saw all these white girls starring and whispering about them, that my friend and her boyfriend stopped holding hands and would try to make it look like they dont know eachother. and this is not the first time ive seen something like this. like why do white girls get mad when we go out with white guys? but its ok for them to take our black guys??. like the whole BW and WM thing is so uncommon that they prefer asian girls. whats wrong with society today? wont this whole white girl and black boy thing fade someday? and the whole black women and white guy thing will be popular?

Answer 1

People are closed minded. It is just alright for white males to like black females.

I have a black boyfriend. I always preferred them to white males.

Answer 2

Black guy and white chick thing has BEEN out there. BW and WM is not uncommon at all. I think some of the people living in this country still live in the 50s

Answer 3

I dont see anything wrong with it. Might be because i live in detroit so the majority of the people i hang with are black. I went out with this black girl last week and i dont care what people think. I wouldnt stop holding hands if people started pointing at us lol. It doesnt matter what race you are. If you like someone for who they are and their personality then you should look past what race they are. Thats the way i see it.

Answer 4

I personally don't think anyone should worry what others think.. all that matters is that you like/love the other person your with and your happy! not others! who cares if people are "whispering" people are gonna talk not everyone is going to "OK" the relationship your in, that stuff happens and if it does oh well...My friends brother who are both white is dating a black girl and they are both very cool and nice people. I think its a little immature that people still judge people by their race.. i think if someone doesn't like something then they should talk/think about it.



Your friend should stay to what she is happy with, and if its that guy then its that guy! who cares what other people think only your friend knows whats best for them..not other random people in the mall if shes happy then who cares..



idk if this helped but its what i think, i hope your friend has a wonderful relationship! :)

Answer 5

i might have stated to them; 'Is that what you stated to (insert the call of black dude courting a white female on your college)...you will get haters...i'm specific white ladies get the comparable nonsense from white dudes. you got to stay with your coronary heart. If he treats you with appreciate, shows you tenderness and additionally you take exhilaration in one yet another...do your undertaking b/c this united states of america has gotten f'd up surrounding race and intercourse.

Answer 6

I don't understand why people keep asking questions like why is it ok for a (certain race) to date someone but not the other way around. WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK? No one has a right to tell what is right or wrong.

Answer 7

it's always been ok for black women and white men to date. Ever heard of the Lovings?

Answer 8

BW/WM relationships were the original IR

Answer 9

Who cares about what other people think is okay? Those people don't matter. They don't pay your bills, warm your bed at night, etc. If I was dating a white guy, I wouldn't even notice the reactions of other people, because I don't pay attention to other people. They don't even exist in my eyes. Those nameless, faceless people definitely wouldn't bother me.

Answer 10

Who said it wasn't? If I choose to date white men there's nothing anyone will be able to do about it, regardless of whether it isn't socially acceptable. That's not my problem, people can look and stare but that will never discourage me.

Answer 11

cuz they are jealous (EVEN MORE SOOO when ur dating a good looking one)





when my brother goes to the mall with his black girl/friend black guys do the same to them

even tho they are not even dating

Answer 12

Don't generalize.



Plus i notice Black guys always date them big White girls.

Answer 13

To each his own, I couldn't come up with a better answer all apologies.

Answer 14

Men in general are hypocrites and think they own women

Answer 15

says who exactly? even if some do say that the key is not to listen, it's really that easy

Answer 16

where you live they're racist maybe? my ex is black