Why do alot of black men say that even for them its hard to date most black women..?

Question

The reason why was because i was in vegas over the weekend and i noticed ALOT of blackmen with white, asian, latina women and i can tell that the blackmen with the non-black women are the better dresser, have their act together. Most of the mixed couples i saw were at very very nice restaurants and shopping at nice places etc. So why is it that alot of blackmen date out their race, there has to be a reason, they just dont up and go, are black women to hard on their men or just expecting to much from them?

Answer 1

Ive seen many black men abusing there non black woman while the black woman and black man work things out a bit better than that. A woman has her preference in a relationship and if the men cant meet that then they go else where. It doesn't mean that the woman is hard to date it just means she knows what shes wants in life, with her man, and all that. The other woman to me sound like they don't know and so they will do anything they can to keep them; dress them up, get them through school and all that just so they will be together.

I don't know about you but i have seen less black men dating non black woman and more white men dating everything. The whole dating what race thing is stupid and let people date who they want! Im tired of hearing about black woman being tough and all that and im black myself...What we should concentrate on is why everybody has to ask a question about why black men are doing this? why black woman are like this? and all that crap...its getting really annoying!

Answer 2

OMG! You ask this in every section. I think you're a White girl or something. Guess what, WhIte men date interracially more than anyone in America and the world, go worry about them for once. & I was in Vegas earlier this year and most BM I saw on the strip & in N. Vegas are with BW, just like anywhere else. >> No seriously, you used to ask this every day as "Tim" in the society section, and then as "John" in the singles&dating section! Why?

Answer 3

Black men always have an excuse for everything,nothing has changed. The only reason why they are better dressers because they bullsh*t these women into buying everything for them since they do not want to work. I feel sorry for black women to have to put up with their black men sh*t.





Thank God I don't have to deal with them.

Answer 4

Could be, the best way to find out is survey, ask a bunch of interracial couples with black men why they do it and if they like or hate their own women.

Answer 5

Here we go again with the black men dating out side their race when the number of white men dating outside their race doubles black men. you trolls are trying so hard and until now nothing seems to be working for you guys why not quite with the black men dating outside then and find a new topic

Answer 6

Wow I hate it when people make it seem like ALL Black men date outside their race when only 13% of them do. How about you focus on the fact that the highest interracial relationship is White man/Asian woman?

Answer 7

maybe they had bad experiences with black women or are just open minded in dating outside the race. and its not just black men who date nonblack women, black women who are open minded or had bad relationships with black dudes also date outside their race.

Answer 8

Hey, they don't, you're just saying that so that the black women will give you a chance.

Answer 9

A lot of white women need a LOT of direction . The black man fills that need ................

Answer 10

because they know that we're not gonna let any man run over us and push us around. I don't mind being "submissive", but there's a limit. If a man wants a sandwich he better go in the kitchen and make one himself!

Answer 11

Dude how many times are you gonna ask this question? Can we say SPAM?

Answer 12

Three words....



Beyonce and Jay Z!

Answer 13

I don't know but I'm in the mood for some fried chicken and and all-you-can-eat buffet at KFC. Who else is with me?