when will dark skinned black women be sexy?

Question

I am a dark skinned lack carribean woman living in the uk and most of the males are now going for white women or light skinned black women of dual heritage (usually black-carribean and white). Although I am not against bi-racial relationships as some members of my friends and family are of dual heritage, I feel that with young black men in the media going for platinum blonde women are putting out a message to this generation of black men that 'White is Right'. i want to know if there is still hope for black dark skinned women.

Also why do black men proudly have relationships outside their race it is deemed acceptable, but if a black woman has relationships with men of other races black men hurl insults and say she has rejected her culture??

Answer 1

I'm a white male and its not the color but the poise and theirdemeaner.For example look at what ann nocole smith was and her actions made me sick to my syomache,as well britney sphers,paris hilton and marylin monroe. i could go on but thats not what real men are wanting.you can buy women like that all day long in neveda whorehouses..

Answer 2

Sexy Dark Black Women

Answer 3

I agree with you all the way girl.

And Dark skinned Black women are already sexy. If a guy just wants a girl just b/c she has light or whie skin, then he is not worth your time.



I cant stand men that dont like women b/c the color of their skin just b/c its dark, especially when they're dark skin too.



White folks have the same problems, I've heard some White people calling other WHite people Casper, and Whitey. Thats not right either. I dont think they should be getting tans, they should be happy the way they are......I like the pale skin!

Answer 4

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when will dark skinned black women be sexy?

I am a dark skinned lack carribean woman living in the uk and most of the males are now going for white women or light skinned black women of dual heritage (usually black-carribean and white). Although I am not against bi-racial relationships as some members of my friends and family are of dual...

Answer 5

Last part first. Men always are proprietary over women from their own ethnic group. This is a relic of patriarchy, where women area always answerable to men but men are only answerable to other men. This is the same reason that Indian, Japanese, or African men often wear business suits while their wives wear traditional costume. The entire responsibility for maintaining traditional culture is placed on the woman's head, and no one judges the man.



As for the first part, there are plenty of amazingly beautiful dark-skinned black women out there. The old standard of beauty is still around, but I think that things are finally starting to change.

Answer 6

Dont listen to antipatriot...I love dark skinned women as much as I like dark chocolate and black coffee. Which is a whole lot. I think this is a bit funny, because I'm probably the whitest cracker youve ever met, and black women generally dont like me because Im not thug enough/or just too plain white.

Answer 7

Ignorance knows no color. That is why men and women and children insult anyone based on heritage and skin color alone.



A lot of dark skinned black women ARE sexy. A lot of white women are sexy. A lot of olive complected women are sexy. A lot of brown women are sexy...

Must I go on???

Answer 8

I am light skinned black and would love to have dark skin. Much of the women in my family and a few of my friends have dark skin and they are very beautiful. I would love darker skin, not everyone has this attitude.

Answer 9

People like different things Dark skin and light skin are sexy.

Answer 10

I think dark skinned black women are hot. And I'm white.

Answer 11

You can't force society to suddenly prefer dark black women. Black men get into blond white chicks-probably cause there are more of them around.



And the message you take form these black men in the media is YOUR message. It's not like they where 'White is right' on T-shirts.

Answer 12

dark women are beautiful as well as light skinned, white women, and other races and skin color. personally my opinion is that its all about tha facial features rather than the skin color or hair. i dunno how it is in tha uk but i'm a dark skinned 15 yr girl living in tha US and i get eyes from white, black, asian, hispanic, and all kinds of men. and i've had white bfs. and tha reason why i think (not a fact) that black men especially go for what ever is closer to white or what is not black is because the media says so. and in tha world in every culture beauty is whatever is closest to white. but to me its all beautiful. white or black, dark, light, or pale. Tmy opinion though.



PeACe OUt!!!

Answer 13

there are many dark-skinned models out there! seriously. both in fashion and make-up. dark-skinned black women ARE sexy. im tired of people who think that lighter is more beautiful...it's messed up. and about that other dating thing...i've never heard of that, but if you say that happens, i'm sure it's a pride thing, more of like "why did you pick him over me?"...jealousy. it's stupid.

Answer 14

They are sexy now.



People love whom they love; they are attracted to whom they are attracted to. But interacial dating has become more accepted, so maybe a lot of people are having fun testing the waters.



The media wants to make money, no matter what color the faces behind it may be. Unfortunately, I think it's still the mode to sell things with white(r) faces. The fact is that white people are the numerical and money majority, and people want that money and they think conventionality is the only way to get it.



The media are not the guardians of truth. What your own experience tells you is closer to it.



Men will always have a problem with perceived threats to their pool of sexual partners.



You should branch out yourself. You are HOT AND SEXY. Feel it and be it.

Answer 15

Racism. And to a couple of you jerks who keep society where it is, "black people are so mean to me"? Well if you ride that kind of horse around I can see why. It doesn't matter what the world finds beautiful. It doesn't even matter what your culture says is beautiful. Honestly, if a girl is skinny with blue eyes, and blonde hair, but has a terrible attitude, she's ugly. Everyone is beautiful to someone.

Answer 16

Your problem comes from the fact that you seem to be looking for approval from society whereas if you looked within yourself you would know that you are already sexy. I've been sexy from birth and will continue to be until the day I die no matter what anyone else thinks =]

Answer 17

It'll happen soon it's starting now usually all the black models have dark skin nowadays.

Answer 18

I have a couple of beautiful, dark-skinned black female friends. It is not only the physical attributes that make them beautiful, it is the way they present themselves that makes them attractive. BTW, I am not into women, but I can see the truth.

Answer 19

I love that there are so many different colors of people. I hate that we are prejudice against each other, especially within our own race! It's a shame. I know it cliche but beauty on the outside fades. The beauty that lasts comes from inside. Truly beautiful people are kind and considerate and loving and care about other people. Rock on.

Answer 20

Dear one,



Stop all the delusions!

In order to attract a qualified person, you must first KNOW who you are!!!!!!!!



Then you must celebrate your personal respect for yourself by being the best you, you can be for you!



So many will notice that you are self assured

self contained, self respected.



Until you reach the commitment to yourself

none others are worthy or warranted!



coloration and or location has nothing to do with it!



There is a person inside that longs to be happy

celebrate that part of you and you will attract the partner of your real desire!

PEACE

Answer 21

The Black woman is the original Mother of All human beings, stand tall and be proud of who you are, there is beauty in every creed, you really need to know about your Ancestors and appreciate your vast precious history don't listen to the bullshit of the media, for me dark and lovely is best ...... Peace and love to one and all xxx

Answer 22

If black people collectively don't believe it then it can't be expected that others will

Answer 23

they all ready are!

by proud of yourself honey!



Iman the model is dark and she's beautiful.

don't listen to the girl saying black people are mean to her; she's a racist.

Answer 24

When they see themselves as sexy.

Answer 25

there r alot of black ppl that r sexy maybe its just not your time yet

Answer 26

hmmm i dont know but im goin to have a interracial relationshoip with an white or asian wheter they like it or not Xp



+i am african american+

Answer 27

everyone has different taste, so don't give up you'll find that guy =)

Answer 28

never to me.....but thats my opinion

Answer 29

Em it already is!!