Deciding between Zeta Phi Beta and Delta Sigma Theta.?

Question

Like a lot of freshman I entered college knowing nothing about greek life and I was immediately awed by the presence of the divine nine. At the time the only sorority on campus was Delta Sigma Theta. I instantly fell in love. After much research on DST I was convinced that it was the organization for me. Unfortunately I was unaware of the do's and don't of greek life. I approached a Delta and ever since then she and her sorors have been very rude. I didn't really mind because I have a thick skin but I was genuinely taken back by their actions. I learned quickly how the game of greek life works. After my freshman year more sororities began to appear on campus and the Deltas were suspended because of pledging issues. I decided to go to a Zeta probate and I was speechless. It was so powerful and emotional. The bond between Zetas and Sigmas really touched me. I had never thoroughly researched other organizations because I was so sure that Delta was for me but for the first time I began to doubt that. After researching Zeta I fell in love. I loved everything they stood for. Their principles are amazing. Scholarship, Service, SISTERLY LOVE and FINER WOMANHOOD. I fell like Zeta broke the mold and made history. The first to charter a chapter in Africa. The first to have auxiliary groups. The first to establish national headquarters and the ONLY sorority to be constitutionally bound to a fraternity. When i asked myself why do I love Delta I didn't have a concrete answer but it's just something about the organization that speaks to me. I've been leaning more toward Zeta but I really want to make sure that I'm making the right decision. I know why I love Zeta but I don't know why I love Delta. I just do. This may sound crazy but look at it in terms of a real relationship. It's choosing to be with a man that I should to be with versus a man that I want to be with. Hope this all makes sense. Any advice would be helpful.

Answer 1

If you join one and you don't like it, can't you leave and choose another one? Sorry, I live in the UK we don't have frats. It sounds like you've made your mind up anyway! :)

Answer 2

First off. Examine WHY you need to join ANY sorority and (like beautiful AKA stated) do your study. There are 4 mighty sororities within the NPHC (Delta Sigma Theta, Alpha Kappa Alpha, Zeta Phi Beta, and Sigma Gamma Rho) which have unusual values and requirements that they uphold daily. Seeking membership right into a sorority requires rather more than a easy Yahoo!Answers question of "which one is better." Of path there will be bias - so that's a decision you can have got to assess for your possess. Remember, though, joining a sorority is ready so much more than stepshows, events, the "in" crowd, etc. When you realise that - you'll be able to be in a position to look earlier all that floor rubbish and make an educated choice. As for "effortlessly...." I don't know what college you attended - but I recommend you close your ears and seal your lips to things you don't have any clue about. Specially as it pertains to my loved Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, incorporated - or any of the other unique businesses within the NPHC.

Answer 3

I agree with Crimson Tide. Look at the organizations and determine which one fits who you are as a person and which organization represents what you stand for. As a member of ZPhiB, I can honestly say, what we lack in number we make up in character. We enjoy the family pride/bound shared between Phi Beta Sigma, as well as Stand on basic principles that everyone one matters and we are our sisters' keeper, even if my sister is a Delta, AKA or Sigma Gamma Rho. Zeta's principles of Service, Scholarship, Sisterhood, and Finer Womandhood are the cornerstone to our existence, so regardless of which one you choose, know that Zeta Phi Beta Sorority and Phi Beta Sigma fully support and respect your decision. Welcome to Greek life which ever way you go.

Answer 4

Well now that you know that you have to be discreet, that's out of the way. I'm a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. and it's amazing. My big sister was one, but I didn't base my choice off of that. On my campus, they were the chill ones. I went to an interest meeting and they were nice to me. So take that into consideration... do you really want to be sorors/ sisters with somebody who gave you rude looks? That's kind of hard to say you have sisterly love, b/c they disrespected you, even though you have to be secretive. Good Luck tho.. :)

Answer 5

I am currently in the same situation, I thought Delta was for me but after seeing their interaction on my campus I was a little taken back. After seeing a sigma probate I decided to do some research on ZPB and I'm really intrigued by their accomplishments not to mention on my campus they are very active in the community and show their sisterhood daily, unlike the Deltas on my campus who basically just wear their letters. I think a decision is not just based strictly off of research, but also by the chapter of the organization.

Answer 6

I believe that Greek Organizations choose you, you don't "pick" them. Many college students find themselves in your same situation although they may not admit it. You have to decide which is best for you. Attend programs, get to the know the members, do your research, and look at the sorority Nationally and not just the chapter on your campus. Most of all, take your time, membership is for life, you want to make sure you make the right choice. If you can't find any concrete reasons why you "love" Delta, Delta may not be for you.



Best Wishes

Answer 7

Sounds like Zeta is for you! If you have to ask other people why you should choose one over the other, then just choose the other!