Question:
Does White women find Asian men attractive at all?
2014-01-21 10:27:10 UTC
Hi I'm fron South Korea. I always have a fantasy of meeting a White woman.
you know, blond hair and blue eyes. they are standard of beauty and I found white women are
very attractive. I do like Korean girls but it's like a fantasy for me to date a white woman.
I want to go to USA one day and get a job there and have a date with a White woman at least
once in my life.

Let me be honest and straight. I think Asian men are somewhat inferior to White, Black males. Average height of South Korean guy is 5' 8'' (174cm), but average height of American man is like 5' 10'' and I saw many caucasian females are over 6 feet. wow. I want to live as a 6 feet and look down on people.

They speak better english since it's their native language. I speak somewhat intermediate I think. I will continue to study but won't be able to speak as fluent as americans do, so it's a disadvantage.
I wouldn't be able to understand some jokes (which requires background knowledge to understand like race jokes and stuffs like that.


Only asians in South Korea so it's hard to find it funny to me sometimes. it's just an example there are whole lot more, like Patick Jane in Mentalist Season 6 described Osvaldo Ardiles as 'tessled loafers' and I didn't know what that mean but Lisbon got it. things like that will happen a lot once I go out with an white woman and she might think 'yeah cuz your asian, there's like a language barrier.') NO!!!! I really dont want that.


future me(in next five years):

I will be graduating university (majored in East asia econmics) by the age of 27 (i'm 23 now )
and will have an experience of 2 years in army (it's mendatory to every korean men over 20. serving 2 years. I will be serving as an army interpreter starting march. dam* i gotta be away from civil society for 2 years of best days of my life!!!!!!!
i am expecting to make annual income of at least $40000, if i get lucky, more.
5' 8'', 170 pounds (muscular type)

my photos:
http://blog.naver.com/ilovenara91/90188888936



So what do you say.
Do you think I will be ever be able to date with a white girl?
I'm not trying to be racist but they are my type. I do like korean girls but everyone can have their own dreams right?

my ideal white woman date:
5' 3'' at least
thin
high school graduate at least
independent/talkactive/bright personality
like sports
must respect me
don't mind about language barrier
+
possesing smoking habit would be good cuz we can smoke together then.
like cats or dogs
like beer



sincere advice plz.
31 answers:
?
2014-01-21 10:44:14 UTC
Your english is actually very good except your last paragraph kind of didn't make sense. I'm not judging though, my grammar isn't the greatest and I'm American!



Asians are not inferior to white or black men. I hate when Asians think that way! I guess your perception of white people is a bit skewed since you're from Korea, but trust me they are not that great. Once you've been around them your whole life then you'll know that. There are many ethnic issues here in the US and white people (in my opinion) are the main causes of them all.



Blonde hair, Blue eyes is NOT the standard of beauty. Please don't think that way. It demeans everyone who does not possess those features.



Anyway, I think you will definitely be able to find a white woman.. Try to move to California or somewhere in the west. People seem to be more open over there. DO NOT move to the Southeastern part of the US. Not nearly as open and it's more racist.

"possesing smoking habit would be good cuz we can smoke together then." Haha.

My advice to you would be to

A.) Make a youtube and subscribe to American youtubers. There are many young, innovative people on there and they can help you get a feel for American humor and culture.

B.) Maybe make a tumblr? There are many subcultures on there that can also help you understand american people that are your (our) age.

C.) Watch American movies! Read American books! Keep up with what is new and fresh.



I don't really know any advice to help you find a white woman, sorry. But try to intertwine yourself with American culture as much as possible via the internet so there won't be a cultural barrier when you come here! :D



Also, to answer your last question. I know a majority of White women that tend to like tall, muscular men.
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2016-09-29 11:19:31 UTC
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2014-01-22 11:20:40 UTC
안녕하세요! :)

I am a Caucasian female, blonde hair and blue eyes and I live in America haha..

Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, so it all depends on the woman. Some women will be attracted to Asian men and some will not.

I have a pretty big group of friends that find Asian guys (Korean) attractive.



I find Korean guys attractive because of their culture and the respect they have for their elders (and also looks) hahaha...



I think you are very handsome (I'm 20). If a person really loves you, they will not care about the language barrier and they will try to know you for who you are rather than what you look like. No race is superior to another. Every culture has beautiful people and not so beautiful people. It really depends on how the person treats others.



So, there is always hope for you! kkkk

You will find the one when it is time!

화이팅!
Andrew
2014-12-18 17:52:16 UTC
You are pretty attractive!



Actually, it seems that blonde hair and blue eyes are not considered that attractive, especially for men.



Blondes are often perceived as "simple" and sometimes "dumb". (This is obviously untrue)



Many people prefer people with darker hair and darker complexions.



I think that even though there are some negative stereotypes for Asians, there are also many positive ones here in the US; they are often seen as a "model minority" although that's not necessarily true. There are very few Asian billionaires or Asians in the executive suites of companies, but Asians are mostly middle class.



Asians have the highest college graduation rate in the United States, and Asians have the highest income/capita as a race.



Don't worry, your English is pretty good; I totally agree with Boykitty, either move to California or the Northwest. People are really friendly on the East coast, and the Northwest is like really fast paced and no one really cares that much.



Good luck here!
fiona
2016-11-06 10:59:03 UTC
Hi I do think Asian men are attractive I have dated both Chinese and South Korean guys. I married a Chinese guy. Your English is good and lots of Caucasian women find Asian men attractive. Get into American culture and good luck hope you find a lovely American girl.
2015-08-07 22:10:03 UTC
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Does White women find Asian men attractive at all?

Hi I'm fron South Korea. I always have a fantasy of meeting a White woman.

you know, blond hair and blue eyes. they are standard of beauty and I found white women are

very attractive. I do like Korean girls but it's like a fantasy for me to date a white woman.

I want to go to USA one day...
Chantelle
2014-08-20 08:51:28 UTC
I am a white female and I love asian men. I prefer dating asian guys because I think they are more attractive. You are attractive and I know lots of white girls other than me who also like asian guys. Your English is better than my Korean haha. Canada has lots of white women as well not just America. Also dont think that your race is inferior because that is not true. One day you will meet someone you are still young :)
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Plenty of Caucasian women find asian men attractive, and not all Caucasian men find asian women attractive. Be careful making blanket statements about large groups of people. They'll almost always be wrong.
Hyderabad C
2014-01-21 20:47:54 UTC
There are dating coaches who specialize in helping Asian males attract white females.



Also there are meetup groups geared to Asian Men, White Women dating - check out meetup.com and type in AMWW dating or couples and some groups in your area should appear.



There are some such groups on fb too.



Much luck!
?
2014-03-18 16:36:36 UTC
All white women are different. Many are, but unfortunately many are not. It depends on the person. I personally think Asian guys can be super handsome (Yes, you're handsome btw :) ) but have friends that don't really. But even if they don't usually like Asian guys if they fall for you I'm sure it wouldn't really matter too much. Don't worry too much, I'm sure you can find someone.
2016-03-22 16:51:23 UTC
My dad is white and my step mother is from Thailand. She is always trying to tell me I should date an Asian man. I have found a few that I find attractive but not too many.
Sonni Dunne
2014-03-25 11:35:01 UTC
Your English is really, really great.

Not that many Caucasians women is 6ft tall, most of them is 5'5" to 5'8" (I'm 5'7")



Yes, they speak English so fluently, because it's our Natives but I can seem that your English is really great!



Actually, most women I know don't really like so so muscle men, they just like average muscle, not that so big. As it do not mean they don't like Asians, it's because when I went out, I saw a group of Asians, they seem stuck together, and seem don't want to come and make new friends with Caucasians people.



And it's so many Asians come to here with their university classmates, we all seem think they have girlfriend, we are afraid if we could bother to them so just leave them to be happy the way they are. As we just thought of mistake, or think they maybe don't want to hang out with us.



And ever I saw Asian was alone, they just do their head down and play with his phone, and walk away when eye-contact to me.



Seem misunderstanding situations, it's why I hope that everyone can get along someday.

As not only white like only muscle men, but I've seen so many of them like so so many different type, one girl goes with Asian man, and other girl goes with Muslim man, another girl goes with black man, or white.

We all have different options of what type we all likes.
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2014-01-21 10:41:28 UTC
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to women of a differing race from yourself. But if I'm honest, the way in which you describe the attributes of white women which attract you to them e.g. their ability to speak English and their height enabling them to 'look down' on others; makes it sound like you are treating white women as a status symbol rather than as a genuine object of your affection. There's almost the sense that because you have reached a certain level of educational and professional success that you think you are *entitled* to the status symbol of a white girlfriend as a result. Whilst there's nothing wrong with being attracted to white women and wanting to date them; any woman you date should be made to feel that you genuinely like her rather than that you are simply using her for status appearances - no woman deserves to be treated like that. If you find a white woman that you genuinely like and she feels the same, by all means, go out with her (and no, I don't think your race would prevent a white woman who liked you from wanting to date you) but don't just date some poor white woman for the sake of dating a white woman. That wouldn't be fair to her and it would be cruel on your part.



Hope this helps



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2014-01-21 15:07:15 UTC
Hmmm some white girls do. Its rare, I know a few white girls that are crazy about Asian men. The white girls that are into anime do.
sbbb l
2014-01-21 14:56:32 UTC
You have right to desire whomever you wish to date and to choose to have personal tastes.



It's just your describing of yourself and your outlook of the world.. eww.. how do i feel them.. dorky? or gaudy? as though they were meant only to invite scorn and derision by asian haters? I can't blame you though, that's how homogeneity such as in countries like yours (close societies like China, Japan, Korea are the favorite exemplary mentions of white racists in their propagandas while at the same time they spit on them. Mark it, world wars are always started by such mentalities) shapes individuals: brittle, uptight, monotonous, robotic.



Sorry, but my advice for you is to change first your paradigm of thinking, get ready to be baptized by the fire (racism) in the REAL world. Many Asian guys jumped headlong as naive when coming out of their mysterious "monolithic" shell, hence fallen victims of those who are prejudiced against them (see Borhan and Sergey's for example) and become bitter in the later stage of their life (like me, don't be). Maybe you should watch "Hawaii-five-o" more often. Asians there are tough but fit in with the flow. Don't give up, though. Your chance is bigger when you lookup whatever type of women you like on an interracial dating site, i'll give you tip: when doing IR White women usually would prefer dark/black people, even those who live in Korea they behave the same (damn i know, such a shame, you live in Asia but you dislike asian men), move on. Your chance is lower, but don't give up. There are indeed some women of your type that are interested in dating your type. I bet you'll get one. .
?
2015-07-22 23:47:16 UTC
but thai female teenagers find Korean men very attractive and are not interested in men of caucaisian race because of their strange look or being too much alien. height matters but what matters more is the general look not only height. do not look too much strange or alien. men of blond hair is an old man.
?
2014-01-21 12:55:15 UTC
There are not many real blonde, blue eyed white women in USA. Sorry, they're mostly fake blondes from hair dye. Most real blonde white women live in Northern Europe (Finland, Sweden, Norway).



If you're willing to date any white woman, regardless of hair color then you might have better chances. But honestly you could probably find a woman with less trouble in South Korea. There are a lot of single Asian men in the USA... but if you have a lot of confidence then you might have some good luck.

http://youtu.be/1kBDx5_mZ1A



As for what type of Asian men white American women like... after seeing your picture I would suggest you get a new hairstyle, closer to what American men have.

Few examples:

http://hairstylespopular.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Popular-Hairstyles-2013-For-Men.jpg

http://www.mens-hairstyle.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/Popular-mens-short-hair.jpg

http://www.menshairstyletrends.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/short-spikey-hairstyles-for-men.jpg

http://blog.opovo.com.br/buchicho/wp-content/uploads/sites/14/2010/05/brad_pitt_photo.jpg

http://www.mens-hairstyle.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Messy-short-hair-for-men.jpg

Shorter, clean cut hairstyles are usually regarded as more masculine and mature looking.



As for clothing, pants are much more common than shorts and usually shirts are more casual, being untucked.

Examples

http://gradeclothing.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/casual-fashion-summer-2013wholesale-t-shirts---buy-2013-summer-mens-clothing-tshirt-casual-e8cmvvt3.jpg

http://trendymenscoats.blog.com/files/2012/10/Yellow-Casual-Menswear-Complete-Collection-10.jpg



I wish you luck.
?
2015-11-01 14:43:19 UTC
Yes
?
2017-03-01 17:30:56 UTC
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2017-01-27 17:57:09 UTC
I honestly love dirty blonde hair it looks truly pretty
marybeth
2016-06-20 07:58:11 UTC
Beautiful Asian Men
2015-10-07 11:39:58 UTC
Find a girl who is addicted to Korean drama and you won t have a problem at all.
?
2014-12-09 22:18:58 UTC
My god... this is such a ***** pathetic question. Unbelievable... This is why I don't associate myself with asians. Bunch of beta *****.
Opyo
2014-03-30 19:11:23 UTC
Get over yourself. You're not all different. White people are racist especially in subtlety. But it's in their nature to say they're not racist.
2014-01-21 13:56:21 UTC
A lot of Koreans I know are popular.
borhan
2014-01-21 11:30:20 UTC
Get divorce within 2 years & you have to pay for her all expense for the rest of your life .its better to live with some one who understand you & your culture .two minutes of thrill isnt gonna last longer ..you will be taking a big risk but i guess you are warned
?
2014-01-21 12:24:38 UTC
Most won't.

I'm telling you right now.

Do not get your hopes up.
2014-01-21 10:36:34 UTC
Some do..


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