I'm 15 and think a lot of us these days are rude, inconsiderate,conceited,etc. I'm not a conservative person,or someone who is really old fashioned. I just think the way so many teens act is just despicable. Well, I disagree with what you said about rap and hip hop being a bad influence. I've definitely heard more violent and angry lyrics in rock/screamo/metal songs than rap and hip hope. R&B isn't even in the same class as the latter two.There's lots of artists from those genres who actually have messages,but unfortunately a lot of them are underground and aren't played on the radio. It sounds like you're blaming everything on the music,which isn't fair because there's an argument for saying rock does the same thing...I don't even want to get into that.It's a touchy subject.Originally,rap and hip hop put women on pedestals and would be called queens instead of h0es.R&B is very different from the two of those though. I like everything but country and metal,just to let you know.It sounds like it where you live that's the style. Where I live,I'm surrounded by a mix of preppy people,gangsters (which is funny...I live in a middle class town,but having gangs in my town is kinda laughable),some emo people,and a bunch of other groups. You sound like you would fit right in at my school,but then again everyone hates my state for some reason.It's kind of a cop-out to worry about your future just because other people are like that. I could say the same thing,but honestly,where you grow up doesn't always determine what your future will be like. It sounds like what you really need to do is connect with more people from your school. Obviously, you'll find a girl who is more your type. I can't believe you said that.People grow up and mature past high school,so the girls will probably change >_> If not? There's someone out there for you. Grow up and ask for welfare? What the hell? I'll pretend you didn't just say that.You make it like you're some minority in a a black neighborhood where they hate you, haha,sorry,I'll be serious.
Honestly, it has more to do with the way people discipline and raise their kids. A lot of times,people treat their kids the way their parents or grandparents treated them,no matter how much they try to end the cycle. It's almost inevitable sometimes.
What the hell is wrong with your town if everyone is acting like that? I'd say something,but you'd probably think it was mean,so I won't say it.Anyway, stop making it like you're the only normal teen left on the planet. There's plenty of us who are respectful and classy people.
In fairness to the despicable and insolent teens,teens like you also piss me off. You think everything is to blamed on the style of music and the media is to blame. Excuses,excuses,excuses. Never forget the way people are raised!
I guess I'm a bit of a misanthrope,so maybe my opinion isn't really valid here...
Damn,this is long -_-