What's with Asian girls and white boys?

Question

Why don't Asian girls go for Asian boys more? I guess some people like mixing it up a bit, but Asian girls only seem interested in white boys at my school, just white boys?

Why is that?

Answer 1

its because asian girls are whitewashed at a young age by media that tells them: asian guys are nerdy, white men are hot. look at all the tv, movies, and magazines.



personally, i find those asian girls disgusting that they chose men on race.

Answer 2

Sometimes I honestly think in the US this has all become a mindless fad. But despite that, the majority of relationships are Asian female/Asian male. I am only attracted to Asian guys. I am not even slightly interested in white guys. As for in school? Are the majority of the students in your school white? If so, that explains it. I went to a school like that when I was younger, there were only two other Asian students. Sometimes, people date who they are around. And I agree with Rutgers Student.

Answer 3

i sense some sexism in here. why always blame the women or find fault in them but not the men? i agree with Sanchez. couldn't it go the other way around? why are white guys interested in asian women? hmm.



and it could be preference or anything. i don't agree with the other answererers who said the asian girls choose to date white guys because they're white washed and brainwashed by hollywood. granted, some may be, but for the most part, i disagree.

Answer 4

i think becky made a good point in her response and i really have to agree. often if a person is in an area where they are a minority race, it would really limit the chances of dating within thier own race. i happen to be married to an asian woman. i didnt marry her for that reason. i married here because i love her. race to me isnt an issue in who i like or dont like. might be the same way for the asian girls you are refering to? maybe they are around more white boys than asian boys and they like who they like reguardless of the persons skin color.

Answer 5

I think a part of it is just trying to assimilate yourself into your surrounding. The media mainly portrays "beauty" as a Caucasian male/female, so it would be natural for someone growing up to want to become part of that image.



And, like what the others have said, the other question to ask is why are more white men dating outside of their race? Personally, I'm Asian, and I've dated outside my race. I like all types of girls, as long as I'm attracted to her and we get along.



And, for the most part, it's just dating. If you don't like seeing this person with this other person because of the color of their skin, then either you need to really evaluate why you think that way or maybe present yourself in a way that makes you competitive in the dating scene.



Have confidence in yourself and what you have to offer, and who cares who this person dates! Everyone will have a dating past, and its up to you whether or not you want to accept that person.

Answer 6

i really have no idea.

but my brother whos 19 & in college is dating an asian whos 18 at the same college.

they've been dating for almost 2 years now.



maybe asian girls dont like asian guys, but i think his girlfriend did have an asian boyfriend before she dated my brother.

Answer 7

all the people here are bashing asian girls only bcoz they go for white guys..but what about the white guys who run behind the asian girls??..why is it always the asians womans fault and not the white men who go crazy over them??..why do asians are called white washed if they prefer to date white men but the white men are not called asian washed??..do u have any answers for this questions??..even if u do ur jealousy towards asian woman wud not allow to answer..well like it or not asian woman are hott..not bcoz they are WHITE but bcoz they are ASIAN..so just get over it.

Answer 8

They do, it's not like there are no Asian - Asian relationships.

Maybe it's because the white men are the majority, so it makes sense that they'd be more picked.

Answer 9

i dated white men more than asian men, not because i plan to do it...it's because most asian guys get really really nervous(well at least to me they do) so we don't have that great conversation, but most white guys are more confident i guess??...so they don't make me nervous... and i am like 5 8" or 5 8" and 1/2 , so yaaaa.....

Answer 10

Dunno.....I'm white (female) and my fiance is Asian (Indian). Many Asians hate it when they see a white woman engaged to an Asian man, but it seems to be socially acceptable the other way around. Don't ask me why.

Answer 11

Umm..don't base everything on things you see at your school.

Asian girls at my school prefer to be with the Asian guys at my school.



It all just depends on the girl and such..

Answer 12

i think you are white girl whos upset about the whole thing.This question is more like a complaint



BTW it s not that Asian girls are molesting the white guys or something.They are grown up boys and girls who choose each other.

Answer 13

You have to understand their culture in that most Asian cultures still treat women as second class citizens and the man is the ruling authority. It has been changing but not fast enough. I sense they are treated better and shown more respect from the 'white boys.'

Answer 14

im asian and my bf is half dominican half italian

Answer 15

Not true my fiancee is Asian and I'am Mexican, same go for white men , why they not dating white women , takes two to tangle.

Answer 16

Lol.

Why are white boys interested in Asian girls?



Anyway, it's because Asians are obsessed with white people. Sorry it's the truth...

Answer 17

Me luv you long long time Charlie.

Answer 18

Lol, thats because Asians all have low self-esteem and are DESPERATE to be white, they lie awake at night wishing for whiteness, prayin to their ancestors to make em white, or askin some mythical dragon to bring em some make me white potion. Naturally, theyre all gonna seek out white boys.

Answer 19

"but Asian girls only seem interested in white boys at my school"



at YOUR SCHOOL. not the fcuking world. it's just how those people are.

what's it to you anyway who they like? they can date who they want.

Answer 20

it's funny how white women complain, but do nothing about it.

Answer 21

they are whitewashed

it doesnt matter

sluts show their true identity

no asian men would want them after they had their fun

they are just waste of brainwashed hollywood media

Answer 22

^Agree



But it's that way at my school too... I honestly don't kow.

Answer 23

they do? but white men are gay...?

Answer 24

Its our eyes, honestly they like blue eyes I have been told.



I see the jealousy in the thumbs down, yes i like my eyes and that tight asian va jay jay you aint getting because your eyes look like a partially unzipped tent.

Answer 25

Idk, go ask either John Lennon or John Gasoline