Is it possible that his fetish for black women is actually bc he's gay?

Question

There is a guy who can not speak to me, but just gawks at me every day. I've known him for 6 months at least. He is a preppy white dude and hangs out with all the pretty white girls the center of attention, but can not talk to me! When I try, he looks away nervously. He was dancing with a big black girl at a club the other day. He has effeminite traits, so my friends always laugh that he's gay...but he says he's into women...

We are in our mid 20s...so is it possible that he's gay?

Answer 1

I don't understand your question.

Why would he be gay for dancing with a black girl.Maybe he's really shy around you because he likes you and doesn't know what to say to you.

Answer 2

your man or woman instant, anecdotal adventure would not be sure something. Frankly, if I had to wager what race became into maximum accepting of it consistent with my very own instant observations, i could say Asian. and that's in all danger incorrect additionally. danger is that no one race is greater accepting of it via a statistically considerable margin, and no study in this question ever has or ever would be executed, so which you will by no potential be conscious of if your assumption is even the wonderful option, making the question invalid.

Answer 3

He wouldn't like black women if he was gay. What sense does that make? Are you trying to imply black women look like men? And maybe he just hates you. Don't bother bringing skin color into it. He obviously isn't avoiding you because you are black because he was dancing with that other girl.

Answer 4

That question can come off kind of racist you tripping ! but to answer your question maybe your jealousy is getting in the way of her beauty and to anybody besides black people a lil booty or meat on you is fat ! maybe they are over there dancing staring laughing at yall don't be a hater all your life and I thought you were nice ! with the other question about your hair and everything I don't think you have room to talk . lay low with the subliminal hate on black chicks !

Answer 5

It's always possible, but until I hear it from the horse's mouth, I'll take his word for it. I don't think his "fetish" for black women means that he's gay. Maybe he's just into her.



Since I don't know him, I don't think I can answer this properly.

Answer 6

he probably like to hang around the pretty white girls b/c he is either vain, or he loves beauty and elegance of all things. that is just probably his personal preference when it comes to the opposite gender and if it's in another race then again that is his preference.



just a thought.....hmmmm: if he's not talking to you then maybe it's b/c he does not find you beautiful enough to waste his time on you. i am not remarking this to offend you but to each his own when it comes to association!

Answer 7

There are many effeminate guys that are straight and only like women. Incredible but true. But how do you know he has a black women fetish?.

Answer 8

If he said he wasn't gay, then why does it still bother you?

Secondly, are u joking, are u trying to say that u find it hard to believe that he seems to be attracted to black women, so u assume right off the bat that he must be gay? what's wrong w/ that, this makes u seem kinda prejudice...

Answer 9

i would say no , being gay and wanting BBW's are 2 entirely different things - but , hey ,the worlds a crazy place .

Answer 10

Sure why not. Is his fetish for black girls or big girls? People usually come out in their 20s so yeah sounds right.

Answer 11

I do not understand why people just come out and ask the person directly. You seem to be an outwardly person, so why not just ask him directly.

Answer 12

yep he's either gay or just likes big black women. pretty obvious

Answer 13

Why did you add me to your contact list...you sound pretty racist.



"bubu" fair enough...but I'm not convinced the English language doesn't have the most.

Answer 14

how do we know? are we him? why don't you just get some balls and ask him!

Answer 15

maybe he dosnt like you cos youre so racist and judgemental?

Answer 16

Nobody likes fat asss BBW's......I think he loves tha cack







Jamal - examples I was gonna give u about racist terms in other languages were: "mayetta" (sp?) - Spanish for n|g, "haole" - Hawaiian bad term for white ppl, "juedo" - Spanish bad term for white ppl....just some examples I thought of